Fantastic Four

When decorating Baelor's doughnut cake with candles, I perfectly placed three candles on top. Minutes later I realized I had forgotten one! That's right, Baelor is FOUR! Since it was just a couple of days after the new year, we still had family in town to celebrate with. It was a dry and super-cold day so I made five different flavored soups: Chicken noodle (for the kids and non-risk takers), Curry Lentil (one of my favorites), Split Pea with Ham, Potato with Sausage and Kale, and Tomato Bisque. I honestly had only made the curry lentil before so I wasn't sure how they would turn out. They were definitely full of flavor and seemed like everyone liked them. Although the kids weren't too thrilled about soup, but were happy when Baelor's doughnut cake was ready to be eaten. Since I spent the whole day making the soups I had to go easy on the cake!

We tested out "Pie Face" game that the kids got for Christmas. It was funny how both times around it splattered Baelor! I guess it knew who the birthday boy was! It was a lot of fun for everyone actually.

Probably his favorite gift was the package of various sharks. He is totally into sharks, whales, fish, boats- good thing I decorated his room in a fishing theme!

The next day we got to extend his birthday celebration by going to G6 Airpark- a trampoline park. It was a BLAST. I have always been a fan of trampolines and gymnastics so this was super fun, especially with so much family to play with. They even had a section for dodgeball!

 

Baelor has had quite the year being a 3 year old. I would definitely have to say this past year has been THE MOST CHALLENGING for us as parents in so many ways that I can't even really pinpoint all the exact things that made it so challenging. The most obvious one is that he did not potty-train easily. This boy was totally fine if he was sitting in his poop all day. We couldn't bribe him with candy or toys or punish him with time-out, a swat on the behind, taking something away, or even sitting in his poopy pants. It really had to be on HIS timing...apparently just a month before he turned four was the answer. Had I known we wouldn't have even tried, ugh!

Finally in junior Primary with Reina

Baelor is a very adventurous boy; as boys often are. He enjoys his own little world and doesn't have the need to want to do what everyone else is doing. I feared he would not follow directions when he goes to school but since he just upgraded to primary this month, he actually is doing FANSTASTIC! So we are not so worried anymore. There are just aspects about Reina and Baelor that are just SO different. Reina wanted to be involved with lots of people and was very quick to learn a new skill (like potty-training) whereas Baelor really enjoys each moment and doesn't really care who it pleases. This kind of makes it sound like he is not socially aware. He totally can fit in and responds very well to his peers, he just has preferences and you may or may not fit in with his agenda.

Mealtimes are also a challenge because he does not prefer to eat meals but rather a snack every two hours. I guess this is normal? Reina was a mealtime girl and not picky either. We are happy that Baelor does like vegetables though, of course when HE decides he wants them though. Some of his favorites are raw cabbage, kale, radishes, celery, cooked carrots and beets. Some of his least favorites are potatoes and corn (weird huh?). Some other favorite foods are: fish, fish sticks, gum, milk, parmesan cheese and other stinky cheeses like feta and goat, chocolate and plain raw oats with brown sugar on top.

This past year he learned quickly how to ride his big boy bike (with training wheels) but it's not his "go-to" toy. He goes about a week focusing on one toy, then will switch with something else the next week. Currently it's his Warhawk fighter airplane. Last week it was his sharks, especially his whale shark. Before that was the plastic boats for the beach or bath. Baelor's favorite color is GREEN, espeically when it comes to his Ikea plasticware and plates.

We love Baelor so very much. We have seen him really grow up the past couple of months. He will always be the kind of kid who will keep us on our toes. Not because he is mean or vindictive. In fact, he is super sweet and loveable to everyone. We call him our "guileless guy" because he really hasn't a desire for anything mean; just wondering which leads to wandering. He is super fun and full of personality and makes the cutest expressions. His latest is his little Elvis lip that curls when he's trying to get the point across of something unpleasant. You can read him with his expressions. Baelor gave us a scare this year but we are so grateful that we get to tuck him in at night, and then re-tuck him in again when he sneaks out of his bed...and then tuck him in when he decides to sleep on his floor...and then finally back in his bed when he is officially asleep.